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Tips To Get Your ADD/ADHD/Indigo Child
To Sleep Naturally
By Lisa Whatley
As a single mom of four children myself I know how difficult it
is to get any child to bed on time! It is even more difficult if
a child has been diagnosed as Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder
or more commonly referred to as ADD/ADHD. The Angel Lady, Doreen
Virtue, calls this: Attention Dialed into a Higher Dimension. Brilliant!
My eldest son, since the day he arrived into this world has been
a go-go-goer! The first year of his life, I tripled my own age!
I was sleep deprived and literally exhausted, a walking zombie!
He barely slept and the times he did sleep, he was very restless,
constantly moving and frequently waking up. Routines and schedules
did not work for him at that time. Taking one five minute nap during
the day would give this child enough of an energy boost to keep
him ticking until well past midnight and he would still be up by
6AM! He by passed crawling and was literally running at eight and
half months! He was definitely my little energizer bunny! In this
article I will share with you natural methods that I have learnt
over the past 10 and half years to help him at least fall asleep.
No one suggestion below will work for everyone, but continue trying
new things until you find what does work for your situation. Do
not give up! It eventually pays off in the long run for both of
you! Unless of course you have more kids like I do. Im so
used to not sleeping now I wonder what it would feel like to actually
have one whole undisturbed night of sleep to myself! At least I
am only getting up for two out of four kids now, but as with all
things, this too shall pass.
- Stick to a bedtime schedule for both going to bed and getting
out of bed. This should not be a fight. Your child should already
be relaxed and ready for bed. On school days the routine for my
son to awaken is 7:15AM. On weekends, he still goes to bed at
9PM, but I allow him to wake up whenever he wants
to get up.
- Get them to use the bathroom before going to bed. This should
help them to not wake up during the night needing to use the toilet.
- A warm sea salt bath right before bed helps to relax the body
and mind.
- A foot massage. This can be with a foot massage bath spa, an
actual hand massage or both! If you are going to use oils, be
sure to pick pure oils, not synthetic ones and that they are relaxing,
calming oils! You do not want to use oil that is meant for stimulation.
Find a good aromatherapist to help you as you need to use a carrier
oil along with the essential oil for massage.
- A back massage. Again this can be done with oils or without
remembering to use relaxing, calming oils over stimulating ones.
- An energy healing treatment releases tension and stress and
can have a calming effect.
- Soft, non-vocal, slow instrumental music. This relaxes the body
and mind whereas using vocals and fast tempo will increase the
energy and keep the mind in thought.
- Nature Sounds: My son likes the sound of rain, dolphins, oceans
and rivers. He didnt care for the bird, cricket, frog sounds
nor the thunder storms as this frightened him more than soothed
him.
- Using the bedroom for sleep only. I created a play area in our
house that equips the television, the kids games, PS2, music,
their toys and books etc.
- Avoid daytime naps especially if you have a child that can take
a five minute nap that revives them until late in the evening!
By pass the nap and put them to bed earlier. My youngest children
(4 and 2) get up at 6AM and go to bed by 6PM, no naps.
- Reading stories either to the child or letting them read themselves.
Pick stories that are calming and non-violent.
- No television of a violent or stimulating nature before bed.
- No stimulating energetic games such as running, jumping, tickling,
wrestling etc. Pick quiet activities such as drawing, reading
or writing.
- The bedding style may make a difference. My son likes it semi-snug.
If the bedding is too tight, he squirms around a lot until he
is able to loosen it up some. You may have try tight, semi-snug
or loose.
- Diet is very important and if you want your child to fall asleep
easily and rest well stay away from sugar and products with artificial
food colouring. That means pretty much all processed foods! It
is time to go back to the basics and eat as natural and clean
as possible. This truly makes a huge difference!
Trying some of these tools may just bring back the peace and balance
you and your child need! If you have any questions, please feel
free to email me at Lisa@infinitylighthealing.com
Lisa Whatley is an Indigo/Crystal Adult, single mother of four
Indigo/Crystal Children, an Entrepreneur, Writer and an Energy Facilitator.
She has helped many people change their lives with the services
she provides. She resides with her four children in Northern Ontario
Canada. She can be reached through her personal website http://www.InfinityLightHealing.com
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